1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers -lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to
insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering,
nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from
office to be at home, for that should be the safest and closest place on
earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition, It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such
equality to turn around and become the defacto head of the home and
oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your
home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife
makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he
gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head
actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A
wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice
or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to
blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he by passes women of
different shapes and sizes to choose a wife But soon after childbirth,
many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves.
Many stop bothering about their looks,shape, dressing, etc. Within 5
years of marriage, people tart wondering if the wife is the man's aunt,
even though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if he truly
loves her, he should love her the way she is but when looking for a
wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled
for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go
to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your
marriage? Love is not about looks - we know But looks enhances love and
marriage There is a difference between someone is figuring herself and
the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent.
As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw
you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy,
sore, down with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a
serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and
fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to
be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not
excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A
wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend, A girlfriend is
always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow
her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not
call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or
dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet
messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?
LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM HIM AND HE WILL SORT YOU OUT.